Hello all, i had to bless the page bc i need the most help right now...I am SassyDaisy!
As some of you may know I have a huge crush for the first time in my young working life with a coworker. Don’t get it twisted we don’t work next to each other we report to 2 different people and althought on the same floor I spend the whole week w/o face to face contact…To give a brief history: I know he has been checking me out from the minute he was a new hired and I noticed him too…we flirt all day long, he’s easy to talk to and he’s built the way I like them ‘tall, light and handsome’ lmao…anyways the whole thing is that he keeps asking me if I have anyplans anytime we are bout to enter a weekend or a holiday vacation but he never brings himself to ask me to chill…so it confuses me if its just courtesy asking even though he asked like 3 different times for thanksgiving weekend, or if he really wants to say something but its too shy to do so…so you can understand, he’s a white boy..get it now! He’s not like our full flavored aggressive Dominicans that won’t think twice in making a move….soooo I never do this but I have written a text and deleted it more than twice to ask him to the movies myself . Normally I would be more corougious but lately I’ve been acting like a pendeja as Savinu put it and I agree. My dilemma is 1. if I don’t ask, he might never ask y le quiero dar un besito ;-) 2. if I do ask, I’m afraid he might think im easy (and I wouldn’t care but I like this one lol) and not be thrilled for the chase (after all isn’t that what guys like, chase after the freeking girl?? Then again isn’t that what white girls do too, be sluts like I??) I mean is not like im having sooky sooky on the first date like I once did and that ended up in 1 year 2 months relationship for the record..lol…he liked it so much that he went mini psycho on me couldn’t let go…lol… and look at what the astrological signs are saying “Romance is in the air, so pay attention! Cupid is trying to throw potential partners in your path, but you won't notice if all you focus on is work, work, work. Take time to notice the flirting going on around you”I NEED HELP!!! What should I do???
- SassyDaisy- ( I have to earn my name, I have not been sassy at all)
P.S. give suggestions quickly I need them before this long weekend passes starting today…
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I am in the same predicament... I like this boy- A LOT! But I completely suck at this being single and promiscuous thing. I have no game lol... I have totally been there with the whole write a text message and never sending it thing... ahhhh!!
I say live a little! Say something simple, but make sure he KNOWS you are interested so he doesn't have to wonder :0) But these crushes are SOOO exciting. If you want to be blunt- I am sure that will be even more exciting! haha
In any case. I ended up sending the messages and got the kiss I wanted + a lil more lol
-Pang
I totally agree with Pang....say something that isn't so forward but gives him the go ahead!
Having a crush is one of the best experiences ever, especially when the feeling is mutual.
Maybe next time he asks about plans for a weekend, invite him along to a group gathering.
Keep us posted!
What are his plans for this holiday???
He has no plans for the holidays, i guess that's why he kept asking me...lol
-SassyDaisy
ask him if you guys can have a bite to eat/drink some time during this long weekend!
fucccck it! What do you have to loose?
Small update: i finally did it. i thought i was goin to throw up, but he said 'i'm at the hospital right now' how should i take that that he did let me down easy?? anyways i asked if he was ok and he was. so maybe he's grandma i know she's been sick lately... so i proceeded to delete his number so i wont get tempted to text again. and i think that's the end of it my crush dont crush me back.... I had nothing to lose/so i did it...
-SassyDaisy
sooo i got his number back bc he texted me lol..so sweet. it was his grandma in the hospital...anyhow..like pang i'm goin for the kiss..who knows i may die tomorrow...so hold on tight this is gonna be a wild ride...
-SassyDaisy
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